Looking For Mr Right
In her recent Instagram post, Jackie Matubia posted in her Instagram stories that she is looking for Mr. Right after all the guys she has dated turned out to be bad guys(my emphases). In the Instagram stories she wrote;

“Proud single mother of two.”
“I’ve already met…Mr. Player, Mr. Stupid, Mr. Idiot, Mr. Psycho, Mr. Cheap, Mr. Lazy, Mr. User. Mr. Know It All, Mr. Control Freak, and Mr. Stalker. Where the hell is Mr. Right?”
The two children she is proud of being their mother come from one man or among the men she has listed above. I believe the most significant honor a woman can give a man is having his child. Now my question is, what special thing will she offer Mr. Right that she has not given Mr. Wrongs? From a Traditional African standpoint, she has given out the two most valuable things-Virginity and a baby- that a woman to can offer a guy to the wrong guy(s).
Mr. Right, I Was Discovering Myself
Our society has normalized open hypergamy. Where women can delay marriage by pursuing their careers, education, and sexual experience in their youthful years. And when they are done with experiencing life and discovering themselves, engineer slogans like: “Real men don’t judge women’s past.” “Real men are not step-fathers, they are fathers who stepped up.” To relinquish themselves from the blame of delaying marriage and turn the blame on men for not manning up to make them wives.
Normally, Mr. Right(a nice guy) fall for this trap because they believe women are priced to be won. “A man who finds a wife finds a good thing.” Mr. Right believes that sex should only happen after marriage although the wife to be have two children. He also believes that a woman’s past does not matter. Stepping up and raising other men’s children is okay, in fact, real men do exactly that.
Mr. Right whenever you are come and save our sister here. Mr. Wrongs manipulated, used, and played her.